About Eve
I started with questions.
This is where they led.
I’m Eve, I’m 48, and like many women, menopause wasn’t something I ever really thought about—until one day, I did.
Something felt different
It started around the age of forty one during the COVID years. Life had slowed down. The world was quiet and like many others, I suddenly had more time to think.
At first, nothing felt dramatic. It was simply a quiet sense that something had changed. Not wrong or alarming, just unfamiliar. My body, my mood, and my energy were shifting in subtle ways that I couldn’t quite explain.
I initially put it down to stress, my lifestyle, or simply the strange times we were all living through. But the symptoms didn’t fade. Instead, they gradually became impossible to ignore. They began to affect every part of my life. My energy, my confidence, my sense of self.
Deep down, I knew this wasn’t just stress or a passing phase. Something more significant was happening. I found myself asking questions I never thought I’d need to ask. I needed answers.
Curiosity became research
I wanted answers I could actually understand.
I began researching—late nights reading articles, watching videos, listening to experts and trying to piece together what was actually happening. The more I looked, the more I realised how scattered and inconsistent the information was.
One source would say one thing and another would contradict it. Some advice felt outdated, some overly clinical, and very little of it felt relatable or clear. So I kept going.
I spoke to doctors, asked direct questions and compared opinions. I had honest conversations with friends who were around the same age, many of whom were quietly experiencing similar changes but didn’t always have the words for them. I also spoke openly with my partner, trying to understand the emotional and relational impact as well as the physical side.
I took lots of notes—patterns, symptoms, timelines, questions and answers. Over time, things began to make more sense. Not because there was one perfect source of truth, but because I had gathered enough perspectives to see the bigger picture.
This started as curiosity.
Eve
It became research.
And now, it’s become this.
Then my friends started coming to me
At first it was casual: “Have you ever felt this?” or “Do you know if this is normal?” Then the conversations became more regular. I found myself sharing what I had learned, helping other women make sense of their experiences and pointing them towards information that felt genuinely useful.
That was when it clicked. There wasn’t one clear, trustworthy and easy-to-understand place where women could find answers without confusion, overwhelm or contradiction—even though so many of us were going through the same thing.
Why I created EvesMeno
I didn’t set out to become “the menopause expert.” I just wanted answers.
After years of research, conversations and shared experiences, it became clear how many women were searching for the same clarity—and not finding it. This is where I have brought together what I wish had existed when I first started asking those questions.
A place for clarity, understanding and real, honest information that actually helps. Because no one should have to figure this out alone.
What you’ll find here
- Clear, straightforward answers to real menopause questions
- Information that has been researched, questioned and simplified
- A calmer place to understand what is happening—without confusion or overwhelm
A little more about me
A warm welcome—and a promise
My promise to you
I will always do my best to answer the questions you send to EvesMeno. I want every visitor—and everyone who chooses to join this community—to feel genuinely welcome. No question should feel too small, too personal or too difficult to ask.
I will treat what you share as private. I won’t publish or share your message unless you ask me to do so.
I know what I would have wanted: reliable information, yes—but sometimes just someone who would listen and speak to me like a real person.
Away from EvesMeno
Researching and writing about menopause is only part of who I am. I love sport, bike rides and dancing. I listen to music old and new, enjoy cooking and fashion, and I am happiest when I can spend time by the sea or travel whenever the opportunity comes along.
Those ordinary pleasures matter to me. They bring energy, perspective and balance—and they remind me that this stage of life is about far more than symptoms.
I am also lucky to have a husband who helped me build this site and takes care of much of the technical side. That support means I can concentrate on what matters most to me: listening, researching, writing and creating content that genuinely helps.
If something here resonates with you, then I’ve done what I set out to do.
And if any of this reflects your own experience, I’d love to hear it.